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On purging more than just possessions
You can outgrow people as well as clothes. And ideas. We go through life acquiring things, relationships, and assumptions. Our phones tell us to buy more crap, for ourselves and our friends.
But getting rid of stuff feels good, too.
Sometimes, it feels even better.
You don’t always know when to purge. I’ve learned to spot the signs. My mind starts to feel slow, heavy. It wants to dance and play, but there’s not enough room. Thoughts trip over clutter.
Inspiration steps in last week’s takeout.
One of my relatives is a landlord. He gets to see inside lots of people’s homes. A while back, he told us about a graduate student who lived in squalor. Dishes everywhere. Clothes everywhere.
Basically, everything everywhere.
No surprise, she had a bug problem. Repairmen couldn’t get work done. So my landlord friend had to show her own to clean and organize.
I’ve tended to have the opposite problem. People see my blank walls shelves and think they need to buy me photographs and Knick knacks. I’ve got a closet full of unhung art.
One of my friends asked me, “How do you live like this?” She went through my apartment…
