Yes, I think that’s exactly the kind of relationship everyone needs to have more of. You accomplish something for yourself, and you share it with people worthy of your trust. What I left out here is that I *do* have a few friends doing better than me in some ways — but I don’t think about it like that except as an example of what you’re saying. With everyone else, I’d say it’s important to keep what matters to you under wraps. :)