This was a fantastic read. Here’s one thing I’ve noticed: Look at Hugh Jackman. He could probably have any porn-induced fantasy he wants. Who is he married to? An attractive, normal looking woman. Could Hugh Jackman randomly show up to a gym and scoop Megan Fox up into his arms? Probably not. She would consider that some creepy shit. So there ya go. The secret is finding that sweet spot — someone you find attractive, but not so attractive you can’t think straight. Also, I’ve never seen anyone form a lasting relationship from a random encounter. It’s always from a social/friend/work connection. I see people all the time that I’d be afraid to ask out. It’s normal.

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