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The Sexiest Things You Can Ever Do for Her
Guaranteed to blow her mind, anytime.
Being sexy goes way beyond looks, charm, and confidence. You can have all these things, and still not qualify.
A girl might go on the first few dates based on someone’s appearance and personality. But all that wears off.
That’s short term sexy.
What you want is long term sexy — that’s what keeps her around for years and years. That’s what makes her love you.
Brag about her to your friends
Almost nothing is sexier than telling all your friends that your wife or girlfriend has good news to share. Promote them a little. That shows you really see her value.
One of my friends just did this with her boyfriend. We were out having drinks, and she plugged his new job.
He’s a little reserved, but she cleared space for everyone to get interested and turn the conversation in his direction for a little while. It was smooth and organic. You could tell he appreciated it.
You can do the same thing.
Making someone feel appreciated — like part of your tribe — that’s sexy. It shows you really want them included in your life.
Make friends with her vibrator
You know she’s got one. Don’t make her hide it in a little plastic container under the bed, or wait until you’re out of earshot. Once you start having sex, ask about it. Let the vibrator into your sex life.
It’s not a threat to you. Vibrators make sex better. Embracing the vibrator means you’re confident in your own sexuality.
From there, you can try other sex toys. You can read articles and books on how to make sex better, and experiment.
Be willing to try new things
What makes you interesting isn’t just the life you already have, but the life you’re going to build with someone. Try out new restaurants. Go on trips together. Take classes together.
Put some effort into planning things yourself. So often, women become the social coordinators of a relationship. Taking some of that mental load off…
