Quietly killing us with compliments
Kind words don’t always convey the best intentions.
6 min readJul 21, 2018
She looks sixteen, but she’s a professor. That’s what the dean said about my friend when introducing her at a faculty orientation. The look on her face told me everything. Sure, she laughed. But you could practically taste the back of that dean’s hand. Never mind that she’d published a novel with a major New York…