How to Please Her Better in Bed
A few pointers
Pleasing a woman is simpler than you think. All you really have to do is read a little, and talk about what she wants.
Then you do that.
The biggest mistake anyone makes in a relationship is trying to read their partner’s mind. We assume what turns them on based on what we see in movies and read in books. A lot of that stuff is wrong. It was dreamed up for entertainment, not actual advice.
Great sex isn’t about size or horse power. It’s about learning to use the body you’ve got, and using it well. It’s especially about learning how to use your hands, and maybe your tongue, and your voice.
The bedroom isn’t a place to prove your masculinity
Stop and think for a minute about the toxic phrases that still surround sex. Men say things like “smash that” or “tap that” or describe sex as banging and boning. Men brag about their sexual prowess in the most violent ways, talking about how they “destroyed her.”
Does this sound pleasant to you? Are you trying to satisfy your girlfriend, or send her to the emergency room?
If a girl talked about shredding your penis, or shoving it down a blender, would that turn you on? Or would it make you wince?
