How to Meet Girls without Creeping Them Out

The science of first encounters

Jessica Wildfire
6 min readFeb 16, 2020


There’s nothing inherently sexist or evil about chatting up a girl in public — and asking her on a date. Almost everything that turns her off or creeps her out involves the how and why part.

So relax.

You can ask someone out at a coffee shop, a library, a laundromat, a grocery store, or…



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