How to Meet Girls without Creeping Them Out

The science of first encounters

Obey the laws of greeting rituals

When it’s okay to talk to her

You don’t need a brilliant introduction

Don’t talk to her just because she’s “pretty”

Keep it under 5 minutes

Watch for avoidance signals

You don’t have to ask for her phone number

Your intentions matter

Politeness doesn’t mean interest

The real goal of talking to a girl

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